Dr. Molly Barrow

The Official Dr. Molly Barrow Blog offers educational self help advice about relationships, business, dating, marriage, parenting, teenagers and children, self-esteem, love and romance. Dr. Molly Barrow holds a Ph.D in psychology and is the author of Matchlines for Singles and the self-esteem adventure series, Malia and Teacup Awesome African Adventure and Malia and Teacup Out on a Limb. Dr. Molly is a relationship and psychology expert host on progressiveradionnetwork.com and television guest.

Saturday, January 30, 2010

Disappointment Often Means Try Again

If you are disappointed with the outcome or decision that another has made, wait a few days and then make a choice. If you still want whatever it feels like that you have lost, then perhaps it is worth your time and effort to try again. Often, after an initial sting wears off we find we don't really want to follow the old path after all, because a new idea has come to life. But if you want something badly enough, then give it another go. Good luck and best wishes!


Disappointment Often Means Try Again


MOLLY BARROW, PH.D.

http://wwww.barrow.progressiveradionetwork.org

http://www.DrMollyBarrow.com

http://www.maliaandteacup.com


Dr. Molly Barrow holds a Ph.D. in clinical psychology and is the author of Matchlines for Singles, Matchline for Couples, and Malia and Teacup: Awesome African Adventure and Malia and Teacup: Out on a Limb. As an authority on relationship and psychological topics,Dr. Barrow is a member of the American Psychological Association, Screen Actors Guild, and Authors Guild and is a licensed mental health counselor. Dr. Molly has appeared as an expert in the film, My Suicide, documentaries Ready to Explode and KTLA Impact, NBC news, PBS In Focus, WBZT talk radio, and in O Magazine, Psychology Today, Newsday, New York Times, CNN, The Nest, MSN.com, Yahoo, Match.com, Women's Health, Harvard Business School, Women's World, has a radio show on blogtalkradio.com and is a columnist for Menstuff.org.

Tuesday, January 26, 2010

Organic Diet for Kids?

Parenting Tip: An organic vegetable & mineral dominant diet may be the single best gift you can give a child for mental and physical health. We search for the perfect toys, bikes, schools, coaches and electronics. Take time to research the pros and cons of the kind of diet we ate BEFORE man began altering foods.




MOLLY BARROW, PH.D.

http://www.DrMollyBarrow.com

http://www.maliaandteacup.com


Dr. Molly Barrow holds a Ph.D. in clinical psychology and is the author of Matchlines for Singles, Matchline for Couples, and Malia and Teacup: Awesome African Adventure and Malia and Teacup: Out on a Limb. As an authority on relationship and psychological topics,Dr. Barrow is a member of the American Psychological Association, Screen Actors Guild, and Authors Guild and is a licensed mental health counselor. Dr. Molly has appeared as an expert in the film, My Suicide, documentaries Ready to Explode and KTLA Impact, NBC news, PBS In Focus, WBZT talk radio, and in O Magazine, Psychology Today, Newsday, New York Times, CNN, The Nest, MSN.com, Yahoo, Match.com, Women's Health, Harvard Business School, Women's World, has a radio show on blogtalkradio.com and is a columnist for Menstuff.org.

Monday, January 25, 2010

Media coverage makes the horrors of Haiti personal for all viewers

Media coverage makes the horrors of Haiti personal for all viewers. This is essential to create rescue action and stimulate donations to help the tragic disaster situations. A cautionary word to letting too much of the event in to your own psyche. You may experience post-traumatic stress just as you might if you were at the scene of the disaster. Your mind needs time-out to help recover from extreme stress, including the media people covering the events. Be wise and protect your children and yourself. Limit all intake of horror, gore, and bad news. Turn off the TV often.








MOLLY BARROW, PH.D.

http://www.DrMollyBarrow.com

http://www.maliaandteacup.com


Dr. Molly Barrow holds a Ph.D. in clinical psychology and is the author of Matchlines for Singles, Matchline for Couples, and Malia and Teacup: Awesome African Adventure and Malia and Teacup: Out on a Limb. As an authority on relationship and psychological topics,Dr. Barrow is a member of the American Psychological Association, Screen Actors Guild, and Authors Guild and is a licensed mental health counselor. Dr. Molly has appeared as an expert in the film, My Suicide, documentaries Ready to Explode and KTLA Impact, NBC news, PBS In Focus, WBZT talk radio, and in O Magazine, Psychology Today, Newsday, New York Times, CNN, The Nest, MSN.com, Yahoo, Match.com, Women's Health, Harvard Business School, Women's World, has a radio show on blogtalkradio.com and is a columnist for Menstuff.org.

Sunday, January 24, 2010

Holistic Nutritionist Charles Marble on The Dr. Molly Barrow Show

US army evac hospital nurse from Desert Storm turns to Health and Wellness. Join Holistic Nutritionist, Charles Marble for a discussion about the pros and cons of organic food, supplements, raw & vegetarian diets and just how to begin to improve your health on the Dr. Molly Barrow Show Tuesday at 10 a.m. eastern.
Call in to 1 888 873-4643 to ask Charles Marble a question about your heath and nutrition.

See him prepare RAW CUISINE http://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=charles+marble+mangroves&search_type=&aq=f


From Charles' web site: http://www.askcharlesmarble.com

"Ask Charles Marble
Welcome to your source for natural health and healing.

Individual on-line consultations. By scheduling your online consultations by email, messenger, or Skype, Charles will guide you personally in your health goals. Ask Charles about any health related subject from: diabetes, cancer, arthritis, colitis, chrones, chronic fatigue, lymes, aids, Candida, parasites, toxicity, herpes, hepatitis, asthma, allergies, and many others. Charles will help you understand the true underlining cause of disease and the wide range of natural ways to restore your body safely and effectively. Progress notes for your health care provider available upon request.

The main focus is to empower you to regain control of your own health!"


Progressive Radio Network is a thinking persons network for our worlds progressive visionaries, stakeholders and great thinkers to assemble on a commercial free and listener supported network. Our provocative hosts speak freely and passionately on intriguing and urgent topics such as health, news, politics, women’s issues, philosophy and more, that directly impact our lives. Progressive Radio Network takes chances. Our voices and ideas are not always welcome by corporate media so Progressive Radio Network is an important outlet for these great thinkers.








MOLLY BARROW, PH.D.

http://www.DrMollyBarrow.com

http://www.maliaandteacup.com


Dr. Molly Barrow holds a Ph.D. in clinical psychology and is the author of Matchlines for Singles, Matchline for Couples, and Malia and Teacup: Awesome African Adventure and Malia and Teacup: Out on a Limb. As an authority on relationship and psychological topics,Dr. Barrow is a member of the American Psychological Association, Screen Actors Guild, and Authors Guild and is a licensed mental health counselor. Dr. Molly has appeared as an expert in the film, My Suicide, documentaries Ready to Explode and KTLA Impact, NBC news, PBS In Focus, WBZT talk radio, and in O Magazine, Psychology Today, Newsday, New York Times, CNN, The Nest, MSN.com, Yahoo, Match.com, Women's Health, Harvard Business School, Women's World, has a radio show on blogtalkradio.com and is a columnist for Menstuff.org.

Saturday, January 23, 2010

"Matchlines for Singles" is Live on Kindle








MATCHLINES FOR SINGLES IS LIVE ON KINDLE $9.95


http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00359FJFY

Matchlines for Singles (ISBN: 978-0-9825109-2-6, Barringer Publishing, February 2010) by author and psychotherapist, Dr. Molly Barrow, is a very different approach to relationship self-help that every Single should read. For years we have heard that “Opposites Attract.” This book proves that “Compatibility” is what makes a relationship last and debunks “Opposites Attract” forever.
“Are you a Longline or a Shortline? Get a birds-eye view of your relationship capacity, and that of your partner’s, to predict harmony with the unique Matchlines Relationship Compatibility Theory,” says Dr. Molly Barrow, self-help author who holds a doctorate in psychology. “Matchlines for Singles is mandatory reading before one ever commits their life, body, finances, or future children’s well-being to a new partner.”
Different from any self-help book on the market, Matchlines for Singles empowers readers to understand their past, balance present and future relationships, reduce conflict, and select new partners more wisely. Almost all relationships can improve and some can have a complete turnaround. The Matchline Theory successfully mends troubled relationships and helps “Confirmed Singles” find true love and happiness. The book has a companion Matchlines Relationship Capacity Quiz that graphs relationship strengths and weaknesses at http://wwwdrmollybarrow.com.
Before a Single accepts the next date, takes a relationship to the next level or gives up on a partner, Matchlines for Singles is a must-read to avoid painful heartbreak.



Ask for the paperback version at your local bookstore starting Feb 1.








MOLLY BARROW, PH.D.

http://www.DrMollyBarrow.com

http://www.maliaandteacup.com


Dr. Molly Barrow holds a Ph.D. in clinical psychology and is the author of Matchlines for Singles, Matchline for Couples, and Malia and Teacup: Awesome African Adventure and Malia and Teacup: Out on a Limb. As an authority on relationship and psychological topics,Dr. Barrow is a member of the American Psychological Association, Screen Actors Guild, and Authors Guild and is a licensed mental health counselor. Dr. Molly has appeared as an expert in the film, My Suicide, documentaries Ready to Explode and KTLA Impact, NBC news, PBS In Focus, WBZT talk radio, and in O Magazine, Psychology Today, Newsday, New York Times, CNN, The Nest, MSN.com, Yahoo, Match.com, Women's Health, Harvard Business School, Women's World, has a radio show on blogtalkradio.com and is a columnist for Menstuff.org.

Tuesday, January 19, 2010

Author/Poet/ Phillip K. Jason Guest on the Dr. Molly Barrow Show

LISTEN TO Dr. Phillip K. Jason!
Archived Show:
1/19/10
http://barrow.progressiveradionetwork.org/

Philip K. Jason interests include Poetry, Literary Criticism, Popular Culture, Vietnam and Korean War Literature, and Anais Nin. Dr. Jason taught literature and creative writing at the United States Naval Academy as a full professor from 1973-2001. He served for twenty years as an executive editor of Poet Lore and was also for many years a member of The Writers' Center board of directors. Dr. Jason discusses literature, war, sex and the publishing and writing business, his twenty-plus books including Creative Writer's Handbook, now in its fifth edition, his collections of poetry, Anais Nin and the literature of war.




MOLLY BARROW, PH.D.

http://www.DrMollyBarrow.com

http://www.maliaandteacup.com


Dr. Molly Barrow holds a Ph.D. in clinical psychology and is the author of Matchlines for Singles, Matchline for Couples, and Malia and Teacup: Awesome African Adventure and Malia and Teacup: Out on a Limb. As an authority on relationship and psychological topics,Dr. Barrow is a member of the American Psychological Association, Screen Actors Guild, and Authors Guild and is a licensed mental health counselor. Dr. Molly has appeared as an expert in the film, My Suicide, documentaries Ready to Explode and KTLA Impact, NBC news, PBS In Focus, WBZT talk radio, and in O Magazine, Psychology Today, Newsday, New York Times, CNN, The Nest, MSN.com, Yahoo, Match.com, Women's Health, Harvard Business School, Women's World, has a radio show on blogtalkradio.com and is a columnist for Menstuff.org.

Sunday, January 17, 2010

GOODREADS REVIEW OF MALIA & TEACUP AWESOME AFRICAN ADVENTURE


Check out a GOODREADS REVIEW

http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/79507702
Pam's review of Malia & Teacup: Awesome African Adventure


rating: *****
bookshelves: first-reads

status: Read in December, 2009


In Malia, I found an intelligent, quirky, spunky, and feisty heroine, the likes of which I haven't seen since I fell in love with Anne of Green Gables so many years ago. She was curious, independent, fiercely loyal and so much fun. This truly was an "awesome African adventure", filled with suspense, betrayal, mystery and intrigue. It was one of the most original and creative stories I've read in a long time. I look forward to reading the rest of the series!






MOLLY BARROW, PH.D.

http://www.DrMollyBarrow.com

http://www.maliaandteacup.com


Dr. Molly Barrow holds a Ph.D. in clinical psychology and is the author of Matchlines for Singles, Matchline for Couples, and Malia and Teacup: Awesome African Adventure and Malia and Teacup: Out on a Limb. As an authority on relationship and psychological topics,Dr. Barrow is a member of the American Psychological Association, Screen Actors Guild, and Authors Guild and is a licensed mental health counselor. Dr. Molly has appeared as an expert in the film, My Suicide, documentaries Ready to Explode and KTLA Impact, NBC news, PBS In Focus, WBZT talk radio, and in O Magazine, Psychology Today, Newsday, New York Times, CNN, The Nest, MSN.com, Yahoo, Match.com, Women's Health, Harvard Business School, Women's World, has a radio show on blogtalkradio.com and is a columnist for Menstuff.org.

Friday, January 15, 2010

Dr. Molly Barrow and NAACP President Harold Weeks



Dr. Molly Barrow was the guest speaker at the NAACP meeting. Dr. Barrow spoke about self-esteem and life choices. An issue of concern is the new census does not count a person of color who checks the box OTHER rather than African American or Negro. If the census does not count every person of color, that means that your community gets less money, services and benefits. If the census does not fix the problem, then I find that very discriminatory.

MOLLY BARROW, PH.D.

http://www.DrMollyBarrow.com

http://www.maliaandteacup.com


Dr. Molly Barrow holds a Ph.D. in clinical psychology and is the author of Matchlines for Singles, Matchline for Couples, and Malia and Teacup: Awesome African Adventure and Malia and Teacup: Out on a Limb. As an authority on relationship and psychological topics,Dr. Barrow is a member of the American Psychological Association, Screen Actors Guild, and Authors Guild and is a licensed mental health counselor. Dr. Molly has appeared as an expert in the film, My Suicide, documentaries Ready to Explode and KTLA Impact, NBC news, PBS In Focus, WBZT talk radio, and in O Magazine, Psychology Today, Newsday, New York Times, CNN, The Nest, MSN.com, Yahoo, Match.com, Women's Health, Harvard Business School, Women's World, has a radio show on blogtalkradio.com and is a columnist for Menstuff.org.

Dr. Molly Barrow Relationship Tips and Parenting Tips tweets and articles on Twitter

My Ezine articles are now accessible through Twitter:

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MOLLY BARROW, PH.D.

http://www.DrMollyBarrow.com

http://www.maliaandteacup.com


Dr. Molly Barrow holds a Ph.D. in clinical psychology and is the author of Matchlines for Singles, Matchline for Couples, and Malia and Teacup: Awesome African Adventure and Malia and Teacup: Out on a Limb. As an authority on relationship and psychological topics,Dr. Barrow is a member of the American Psychological Association, Screen Actors Guild, and Authors Guild and is a licensed mental health counselor. Dr. Molly has appeared as an expert in the film, My Suicide, documentaries Ready to Explode and KTLA Impact, NBC news, PBS In Focus, WBZT talk radio, and in O Magazine, Psychology Today, Newsday, New York Times, CNN, The Nest, MSN.com, Yahoo, Match.com, Women's Health, Harvard Business School, Women's World, has a radio show on blogtalkradio.com and is a columnist for Menstuff.org.

Thursday, January 14, 2010

Barringer Publishing seeks books that matter



Barringer Publishing seeks books that matter

BY PHILIP K. JASON Special to Florida Weekly


JEFF SCHLESINGER
For Jeff Schlesinger, whose advertising and marketing career includes more than two decades in Naples, the collapse of home building presented a challenge. Many of his clients are local builders whose misfortunes have been his as well. After researching new ways to apply his talents and experience, Mr. Schlesinger made a surprising choice: book publishing. Most failed publishing endeavors, he believes, result from faulty marketing — and marketing savvy is Mr. Schlesinger’s forté.

Barringer Publishing, a name that combines his own last name with that of his wife — psychologist author Dr. Molly Barrow — is a full-service publishing house that guides authors through four major steps: publishing, marketing, graphics and advertising. For Jeff Schlesinger, however, marketing considerations embrace the entire process. Authors who do not want piles of books in their closets need carefully designed plans that target potential readers and turn them into buyers.

With a background in art, Mr. Schlesinger feels that his creative side is responsive to the needs and aspirations of authors. He savors the preliminary conversations that eventually build the author-publisher relationship. Mr. Schlesinger entered advertising from the perspective of graphic design, and he steps into publishing with both that interest and decades of marketing know-how.

“Publishing,” for Mr. Schlesinger, includes editorial assistance, cover design, interior layout and design, and printing. A book’s appearance must attract attention and provide a message. The impact of the cover and the power of the title are essential marketing decisions. So are decisions about manufacturing quality, distribution channels, and pricing. Each book’s price must include a percentage allotted to marketing costs.

“Marketing” includes public relations, media contacts, review copies, mailings, press releases, networking (electronic and otherwise), and speaking engagements. Branding the author as an expert on topics addressed in the book opens up marketing opportunities.

“Graphics” supplements book design with advertising design, handouts, bookmarks, fliers, Web site design, business cards, and posters for book signings and other exhibits. For Mr. Schlesinger, “a distinctive, cohesive graphics campaign is essential.”

“Advertising” goes beyond ad design to include print and electronic media placement. Barringer Publishing works to define the market for a book and reach that market “with the correct message as cost effectively as possible.” Many books have niche markets (“grandparents purchase four out of 10 children’s books”), and advertising campaigns must exploit media that truly reach the potential buyers.

Self-published authors have the opportunity to make far more money per book than authors who work with traditional “royalty” publishers. However, this opportunity cannot be realized unless the authors receive appropriate guidance and assistance. Mr. Schlesinger developed Barringer Publications to do just that.

Published authors unhappy with their books are turning to Barringer Publishing for book makeovers. Makeovers typically include reshaping the book’s content, stylistic smoothing, a new title, enhanced graphics, more astute production and pricing decisions, and — of course — an effective marketing plan.

Barringer Publications established its initial list of titles primarily by word of mouth, and interest has spread far beyond Naples, aided by the promise of a 60-day turnaround time and the showpiece titles by Dr. Molly Barrow. Mr. Schlesinger has discovered that there are many good writers in the Naples area, accomplished people with fascinating experiences who are ready to share what life has brought them and taught them. He intends to help them refine their voices, share their stories and insights, and do it all effectively.

If a book already in print is in desperate need of a strong marketing campaign, Mr. Schlesinger offers that service as well. For information, write to info@barringerpublishing.com.

Coming soon (along with new Dr. Molly Barrow titles):

• “Six Months to Dr. - How I Completed My Dissertation in Six Months and Saved Thousands of Dollars” by Dr. Judi Cineas, Ph. D. The title says it all. February.

• “Seven Soldiers” by Philip Storm. This substantial makeover of a factbased Vietnam War novel involves seven military brothers, a golden triangle drug operation, and the Congressional Medal of Honor. February.

• “Why Men Must Lie to Women” by Philip Storm. What types of lies are there? When do men/boys start lying to women, and why are they compelled to become experts in the art of lying? March.

• “Why Wait? Be Happy Now,” by Donna Daisy, Ph.D. A self-help book answering the question, why wait for something to happen to provide your happiness when you can be happy now? Even people living in dire circumstances can attain happiness by following good advice. March. 





MOLLY BARROW, PH.D.

http://www.DrMollyBarrow.com

http://www.maliaandteacup.com


Dr. Molly Barrow holds a Ph.D. in clinical psychology and is the author of Matchlines for Singles, Matchline for Couples, and Malia and Teacup: Awesome African Adventure and Malia and Teacup: Out on a Limb. As an authority on relationship and psychological topics,Dr. Barrow is a member of the American Psychological Association, Screen Actors Guild, and Authors Guild and is a licensed mental health counselor. Dr. Molly has appeared as an expert in the film, My Suicide, documentaries Ready to Explode and KTLA Impact, NBC news, PBS In Focus, WBZT talk radio, and in O Magazine, Psychology Today, Newsday, New York Times, CNN, The Nest, MSN.com, Yahoo, Match.com, Women's Health, Harvard Business School, Women's World, has a radio show on blogtalkradio.com and is a columnist for Menstuff.org.

Tuesday, January 12, 2010

My Suicide Gabriel Sunday & David Lee Miller on The Dr. Molly Barrow Show





My Suicide actor, Gabriel Sunday & David Lee Miller, director, were awesome today on The Dr. Molly Barrow Show progressiveradionetwork.com. The shows are archived and available to listen to again anytime.



MOLLY BARROW, PH.D.

http://www.DrMollyBarrow.com

http://www.maliaandteacup.com


Dr. Molly Barrow holds a Ph.D. in clinical psychology and is the author of Matchlines for Singles, Matchline for Couples, and Malia and Teacup: Awesome African Adventure and Malia and Teacup: Out on a Limb. As an authority on relationship and psychological topics,Dr. Barrow is a member of the American Psychological Association, Screen Actors Guild, and Authors Guild and is a licensed mental health counselor. Dr. Molly has appeared as an expert in the film, My Suicide, documentaries Ready to Explode and KTLA Impact, NBC news, PBS In Focus, WBZT talk radio, and in O Magazine, Psychology Today, Newsday, New York Times, CNN, The Nest, MSN.com, Yahoo, Match.com, Women's Health, Harvard Business School, Women's World, has a radio show on blogtalkradio.com and is a columnist for Menstuff.org.

Friday, January 08, 2010

Conversations with Remarkable Minds Gary Null interviews Dr. Molly Barrow







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The Gary Null Show Live!

Gary Null
CONVERSATIONS WITH REMARKABLE MINDS
Monday thru Friday, 12:00 Noon EST !

Guest line-up for this week:


Wednesday, Jan 6, 12:00 Noon -
Dr. Vincent Pedre is one of New York City’s foremost primary care physicians specializing in holistic and integrative medicine and a clinical instructor at Mt. Sinai Medical Center. Since the flu season is still upon us, we will discuss how we can best protect ourselves naturally from infectious pathogens and build our immune systems.

Thursday, Jan 7, 12:00 Noon -
Prof. Raj Patel who has formerly worked for the World Bank and the WTO and is now a fellow at the Institute for Food and Development Policy (known as Food First) will look at the current economic system that is being built on the value of nothing.

Friday, Jan 8, 12:00 Noon -
Dr. Molly Barrow is a psychologist who is hosting a new show on PRN – “The Dr. Molly Barrow Show” . The program will address topics concerning love, relationships and dealing with the stresses of life.


http://www.DrMollyBarrow.com

http://www.maliaandteacup.com


Dr. Molly Barrow holds a Ph.D. in clinical psychology and is the author of Matchlines for Singles, Matchline for Couples, and Malia and Teacup: Awesome African Adventure and Malia and Teacup: Out on a Limb. As an authority on relationship and psychological topics,Dr. Barrow is a member of the American Psychological Association, Screen Actors Guild, and Authors Guild and is a licensed mental health counselor. Dr. Molly has appeared as an expert in the film, My Suicide, documentaries Ready to Explode and KTLA Impact, NBC news, PBS In Focus, WBZT talk radio, and in O Magazine, Psychology Today, Newsday, New York Times, CNN, The Nest, MSN.com, Yahoo, Match.com, Women's Health, Harvard Business School, Women's World, has a radio show on blogtalkradio.com and is a columnist for Menstuff.org.

Soldiers Denied Mental Health Care

Mental Health Counselors have more in depth training than social workers yet they are lobbied out of Medicare. These thousands of well qualified counselors are denied reimbursement for mental health services and thus must refuse to see soldiers and other needy patients who are on Medicare. How stupid is that?

"Senate Bill Lacking LMHCs Medicare Coverage Sent to Conference with Pro-LMHC House Bill

Early Christmas Eve, the Senate passed H.R. 3590, its health care reform bill. H.R. 3590 lacks any provisions providing for LMHC Medicare eligibility. As the Senate bill is sent to the House for conference, AMHCA urges its membership to continue to push their legislators, in both the Senate and House, for inclusion of LMHC Medicare eligibility in the bodies' final health care reform product.

The American Mental Health Counselors Association (AMHCA) is a growing community of almost 6,000 mental health counselors. Together, we make a critical impact on the lives of Americans. AMHCA succeeds in giving a voice to our profession nationwide and in helping to serve you and your colleagues in your state."

http://www.amhca.org/about/default.aspx












MOLLY BARROW, PH.D.

http://www.DrMollyBarrow.com

http://www.maliaandteacup.com


Dr. Molly Barrow holds a Ph.D. in clinical psychology and is the author of Matchlines for Singles, Matchline for Couples, and Malia and Teacup: Awesome African Adventure and Malia and Teacup: Out on a Limb. As an authority on relationship and psychological topics,Dr. Barrow is a member of the American Psychological Association, Screen Actors Guild, and Authors Guild and is a licensed mental health counselor. Dr. Molly has appeared as an expert in the film, My Suicide, documentaries Ready to Explode and KTLA Impact, NBC news, PBS In Focus, WBZT talk radio, and in O Magazine, Psychology Today, Newsday, New York Times, CNN, The Nest, MSN.com, Yahoo, Match.com, Women's Health, Harvard Business School, Women's World, has a radio show on blogtalkradio.com and is a columnist for Menstuff.org.

Monday, January 04, 2010

Matchlines for Singles Book Review and Interview with Author Dr. Molly Barrow


Dr. Molly Barrow has been working in Naples as a mental health counselor and psychotherapist since her arrival in 1998. She opened her private practice here soon after earning a Ph.D. from Walden University with a dissertation on Pathways and Pitfalls of Co-parenting in the Divorce Process. Before that, following B.A. and M.A. degrees in psychology from the University of Northern Colorado, she had already established herself as a mental health practitioner.

But there is another Molly Barrow who has training and experience as an actor, director, writer and production supervisor. So we have here a talented and highly-educated woman who is a member of both the American Psychological Association and the Screen Actors Guild.

These two areas of expertise nourish one another in several of her enterprises. For example, Dr. Barrow wrote, directed and edited several medical training videos. She is also involved in a full-length film, My Suicide, which is mentioned in her comments that follow. Her experience in front of and behind the camera helps her communicate and inform, whether as a teacher, guest speaker, contributor to documentary video projects, or expert witness. Now, growing out of her clinical work, Dr. Barrow has written her first book - Matchlines.


PKJ: How did you first get the idea for the book?
MB: During my counseling sessions I questioned why people who gave great quality love still could not make their relationships work. I developed a theory and began to show it graphically to my patients. They reacted first with an "Aha! I get it," then later they were able to balance their relationships and found happiness. I was aware that men could understand the relationship in a "big picture" way after they saw me draw the lines of their relationship. Patients knew what their next move should be and it worked for them. I wanted to reach more people, so I wrote the book.
PKJ: In a somewhat crowded field, what makes your book stand out?
MB: Your relationship can affect your good health, divide your finances, and make or break your children's happiness. There is room for many books on how to communicate and improve your relationship with your partner. Matchlines is a tested theory that works. The book can be used to improve all relationships, help to distinguish the right partner for you, and build your self-esteem. Many readers say they are excited and empowered by the book, and even call it a self-help page turner. It is good for adults married thirty years or teenagers venturing into the dating world. Matchlines gives people hope that they can be happy in love. So many people had tried other methods, books, and therapists without getting better, but they said my theory shows them what was going wrong in their relationship while the diagrams and cartoons made them laugh. Most people seem to comprehend it and make changes that make a big difference in the quality of their relationship.
PKJ: What are the main features of the book?
MB: Everyone has a learned capacity to love another that can be estimated and compared to another's. For a compatible easy relationship, the two capabilities or "lines" need to match, thus Matchlines. A step-by-step instruction on how to analyze your relationship is in the book, as well as chapters on you and your partner's "love heritage," your current love capacity and ways to improve your ability to give love and sometimes, to give less demonstrative love.
PKJ: Had you done much professional or popular writing before?
MB: My mother was and my eldest brother, James, is now the writer in the family. Writing is hard work for me. I have a children's book and screenplay completed about a young girl finding self esteem. I had some input on the My Suicide screenplay, due out in 2009., where I also will play the part of an expert on suicide. My Ph.D. dissertation was the most difficult and time-consuming paper. It is where I learned to be a better writer. My research was on how to predict successful co-parenting after a divorce. The Matchline Relationship Quiz on drmollybarrow.com evolved from my dissertation work. Along with Beth Van Arsdale and Judge Dan Monaco and others I helped to write the Standardization for Custody Evaluation for Collier County. I took writing classes from Hollis Alpert, and over many coffees and cookies he taught me to "just tell stories!"
PKJ: Is it true that this will be the first in a series of books?
MB: The relationship theory will be applied to parenting and step-parenting and also business and social relationships....
PKJ: Has the publication of the book affected your practice in any way?
MB: My patients are thrilled for me. Many have already bought the book and are giving me five star reviews on Amazon and barnesandnoble.com. That feels pretty great!
PKJ: What are your interests and hobbies and your views on living in Naples?
MB: I love movies, gypsy flamenco music and books on nutrition and health. I eat organic food 95 percent of the time. I think Southern Florida real estate is still the best buy around when you factor in the beach lifestyle and scenic beauty of this area. I have a few causes. One is Regenerate, a non-profit that helps prevent teen fatalities from suicide and reckless driving. When Regenerate founder David Miller and I met at Sundance film festival, he told me about his work with teenagers using teen peer influence in prevention commercials. He developed the concept for the film My Suicide, which he directs. The film stars Gabriel Sunday, David Carradine and Mariel Hemingway. Matchlines for Singles is published by Barringer Publishing and available at http://www.drmollybarrow.com for $15.95.

(Philip K. Jason, Ph.D., is Professor Emeritus of English from the United States Naval Academy. A poet, critic, and free-lance writer with twenty books to his credit, this "Dr. Phil" chairs the annual Naples Writers' Conference presented by the Naples Press Club. Send him your book news at pjason@aol.com.)



©Naples Sun Times 2009

MOLLY BARROW, PH.D.

http://www.DrMollyBarrow.com

http://www.maliaandteacup.com


Dr. Molly Barrow holds a Ph.D. in clinical psychology and is the author of Matchlines for Singles, Matchline for Couples, and Malia and Teacup: Awesome African Adventure and Malia and Teacup: Out on a Limb. As an authority on relationship and psychological topics,Dr. Barrow is a member of the American Psychological Association, Screen Actors Guild, and Authors Guild and is a licensed mental health counselor. Dr. Molly has appeared as an expert in the film, My Suicide, documentaries Ready to Explode and KTLA Impact, NBC news, PBS In Focus, WBZT talk radio, and in O Magazine, Psychology Today, Newsday, New York Times, CNN, The Nest, MSN.com, Yahoo, Match.com, Women's Health, Harvard Business School, Women's World, has a radio show on blogtalkradio.com and is a columnist for Menstuff.org.

Sunday, January 03, 2010

Dianne Durante Ed.S.on The Dr. Molly Barrow Show

Dr. Dianne Durante will be the guest on The Dr. Molly Barrow show on Tuesday January 5 at 10:00 a.m. Eastern. Dainne has counseled hundred of couples in her Marriage and Family Therapy practice and will talk about relationships and happiness in the New Year. Join us and call in your questions.
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MOLLY BARROW, PH.D.

http://www.DrMollyBarrow.com

http://www.maliaandteacup.com


Dr. Molly Barrow holds a Ph.D. in clinical psychology and is the author of Matchlines for Singles, Matchline for Couples, and Malia and Teacup: Awesome African Adventure and Malia and Teacup: Out on a Limb. As an authority on relationship and psychological topics,Dr. Barrow is a member of the American Psychological Association, Screen Actors Guild, and Authors Guild and is a licensed mental health counselor. Dr. Molly has appeared as an expert in the film, My Suicide, documentaries Ready to Explode and KTLA Impact, NBC news, PBS In Focus, WBZT talk radio, and in O Magazine, Psychology Today, Newsday, New York Times, CNN, The Nest, MSN.com, Yahoo, Match.com, Women's Health, Harvard Business School, Women's World, has a radio show on blogtalkradio.com and is a columnist for Menstuff.org.